The word networking sounds a bit... formal. Maybe even a little cringe. Like something businessy people do over dry sandwiches and awkward small talk. But networking isn’t about wearing a suit or having loads of experience. It’s just about talking to people, building relationships that can help you grow, learn, and find opportunities.
At its core, networking is about making connections. Not just to “get a job” (though that’s a bonus), but to hear real stories, get advice, and learn how others got to where they are. You’d be surprised how often a quick chat, message or intro can open a door.
So how do you actually start networking when you feel like you don’t know anyone yet?
1. Start With Who You Already Know
You don’t need to know someone “important” to start networking. Your circle’s probably bigger than you think.
Got a mate whose older sister works in design? A family friend in healthcare? A tutor who’s always talking about their own career journey? Those are all connections. Don’t underestimate how willing people are to help if you just ask.
Try this:
“Hey, I’m really interested in getting into [insert field]. Would you be up for a quick chat about how you got started?”
2. Use Social Media to Your Advantage
Yes, you can totally scroll TikTok and still build a network – but LinkedIn’s your real go to.
Follow people in industries you’re curious about, comment on posts, or even message someone whose job sounds cool.
Not sure what to say?
Try: “Hi, I saw your post about working in [industry] and found it really helpful. I’m exploring similar roles – would you be open to a quick chat? I’d love to ask a few questions.”
Worst case? They don’t reply. Best case? You get a reply and maybe even a foot in the door.
3. Go to Events – Even the Awkward Ones
Careers fairs, workshops, webinars, yes, they can be a little awkward but they’re also goldmines for conversations.
You don’t have to walk in and “work the room.” Aim to have one or two real chats. Ask people what they do, how they got there, and if they have any advice for someone starting out.
4. Be Curious
You don’t need to come across like you know it all. Most people love being asked for advice – it makes them feel good (and a bit wise).
Ask questions like:
- “What do you wish you’d known when you were starting out?”
- “What skills do you use the most in your job?”
- “How did you get your foot in the door?”
Curiosity is a superpower – use it.
5. Follow up and Keep in Touch
After a good chat or message exchange, say thanks. A simple “really appreciate your time” goes a long way. And don’t be afraid to stay in touch every now and then – even just to say you took their advice and it helped.
Final Thoughts
Networking is about being genuinely interested in people – and letting them see your potential.
There are millions of young people in work in the UK right now, and loads of them got help along the way. A connection. A conversation. A tiny push.
You never know where one chat might lead.
There are so many networking events out there. Eventbrite can be a great place to start and to see what’s on in your area.
